Midterms, Friends, & Fun

Local Time: Sunday April 28, 11:11

After our Chengdu trip, Peter and I (and all UIC students) have been very, very busy with midterms. Especially with the Chinese national holiday, Labor Day, coming up, we have been busy starting and finishing assignments. This week, we will just have class Monday and Tuesday and then will start our break!

Despite the increasing amount of school work, we have found time to hang out with our friends. We often hang out with Alexey and Avril. I also spend a lot of time with Captain Lin and Beryl.

Hanging out with friends!
Mall trips with Peter, Avril, and Losha
(I also did a trip with Ana and Avril where we got our eyelashes done and I got a new nose piercing)

Peter and I went to the Zhuhai Study Abroad Cultural Museum and the Tangjiawan ancient village
The museum went through a deep dive of how Zhuhai was a major contributor to the beginning of studying abroad in China (from China to other countries). The ancient village seemed a lot like the ancient village between Campus 1 and Campus 2, Huitong, so it wasn’t as new to us. But, we found a cafe that sold coffee, beer, and tea and had cats inside! It was like a cat cafe, except the cats were free to come in or out (usually the cat cafes are more “man-made” and not so natural). It gave off sort of English vibes. We got some fries (delicious) and some sweet potato balls (also delicious).

Peter got a haircut!
Very proud of him! It was nervewracking for him, being his first hair cut done by someone other than his usual person in many many years!

RAINY!
It’s been quite rainy lately… 80s and rainy with thunderstorms and lightning. Quite different from Oregon rain!

Outing with my roommate
Tonight, I went with my roommate to Kingfa shopping center to watch the film “Kim’s Video”, a docudrama. We took the public bus to Tangjiawan station, and then took a DiDi to the mall. The docudrama was very good! It was about an 1hr and 20min, really engaging, and mostly informational about the famous Kim’s Video in New York.
I have also learned that popcorn in China (not just at this theater) is always glazed with something sweet, opposed to our buttery and salty popcorn in the US. It was good! Outside of the mall there were multiple gatherings of retired Chinese women dancing in unison to their music! It was fun to watch.

Labor Day holiday
For labor day, Peter and I will be going to Guangzhou and Dongguan with Avril! (Avril’s immediate family lives in Dongguan).

Chengdu… finally an update!

Local time: Fri April 12, 1:04

Finally after a fun week of traveling, immediately followed by midterms, and now laying in bed after numbing my 25 mosquito bites, I can take some time to write an extensive update of our last two weeks!

Last week was our “reading week” which is basically just our spring break.

Monday, April 1
Laxmi, Peter, and I took a train from Tangjiawan train station (15 minute DiDi/taxi from school) to Guangzhou South train station. We then took a DiDi about 2 hrs south to the Guangzhou airport where we met up with Avril and her dad ~ she had gone to Guangzhou earlier to see her family! The whole process to get through the train stations, airport security, the 2hr flight, and to our hotel was easy and efficient, way to go China. In the Guangzhou airport, we actually found a Tim Horton’s coffee! Our first night traveling, we actually stayed in Meishan, Avril’s hometown. Peter and I stayed at a hotel near Avril’s aunt’s house, where Avril and Laxmi stayed the night. Meishan is just on the outskirts of Chengdu. We didn’t do anything Monday aside from traveling, and boy it felt good to get to our hotel room – though it was an odd room, a one-of-a-kind room on the floor… with dark wood and no windows. But, it was very comfortable!

Tuesday, April 2
On Tuesday, we went to the cherry blossom garden! A lot of the flowers and cherry blossoms were past their prime, but it was a still a beautiful place and garden. We then went to lunch with Avril’s aunt, dad, and a couple other relatives… it was a family-style lunch, food was on a center spinning thing 🙂
We then took a quick train from Meishan to Leshan to see the Leshan Giant Buddha! We bought our tickets, left our luggage at a shop near the entrance, and headed into the very large park. You start at the bottom of the mountain and walk through caves and along paths with large buddha carvings and even offerings. It was incredibly scenic and spiritual. There are two parts of the park: the first part is at the bottom through the caves where you can see 30-50 meter-high Buddha, these tickets costed ¥50/student paid just as we entered the park; the second part was the Giant Buddha that you are supposed to see after as you hike up. Those tickets cost us ¥40/student, but we didn’t pay for those until we were about halfway up. Sort of a side note: we discovered that Avril’s dad is not great with directions, he just sort of walks, and Avril takes after her dad. As we followed Avril through the Giant Buddha park, we skipped the first part ENTIRELY and went straight to the Giant Buddha 😂 The Giant Buddha was amazing! A truly majestic and astonishing feat of human work. He was much bigger in person and seated nicely in the mountain facing the city across the water. When you arrive, you arrive right at the top of his head. And this is where we toured this park completely wrong.
The path you’re supposed to take is: go to the Budddha caves, then go to the Giant Buddha’s feet, then hike up to the Giant Buddha’s head, and then take the exit route back down from the head and out of the park.
The path we took: Straight to the Buddha head, then back down to the Buddha feet, then back up to the Buddha head to go back down to the exit… because the park was closing! It was quite funny and memorable, and even though we didn’t see everything or go the correct route, it was fun and we still got to see many beautiful parts. We even stood at the top of the Buddha head for about half and hour watching a worker in a very homemade looking harness stand on the cliff edge with a LONG fishing pole… we wondered what was down there?? Oh boy, we were scared he would slip and his harness that was connected to… nope, being held by a rope by another person… would not save him. Turns out it he was fishing for a scarf!
Anyways, it was a great time. We left the park, got some dinner, went to the club, and called it a night!

I have +6 mosquito bites since I started writing this blog… and I’ve killed 1 mosquito. THIS IS HORRIBLE. I recounted all of my bites as well, I actually have over 30.

Wednesday April 3
This day I was very frustrated. Because we went to the club the night before, everyone slept-in, including myself. But, we were supposed to go for a hike this day which we ended up not doing because by the time everyone was awake around noon, no one seemed interested (it would also apparently take around 6 hours to do the whole hike and riding a tram-like thing to the top of Leshan mountain). This was fine, but what frustrated me was that after we had a delicious take-out lunch in our hotel room, everyone slept the rest of the day. I did not sleep, and I was very bored. We were not in a city center or anything, a beautiful rural area in a woody, mountainy area. We made a new plan to go see Kung Fu Panda 4 that day as well, and as I waited for people to awaken so we can go out, the hours kept on passing… Around 6pm I decided to go by myself and walk around the village and area. It was a nice walk, the streets were all crowded with old-style apartment buildings and street markets. I walked up and down the roads and passed many restaurants and markets. It started to rain on me around 7pm when I was summoned back to the hotel so we could go to eat hotpot… then I waited another 20+ minutes in the hotel lobby for them to get ready to go. But aside from all the waiting and just one lazy day, it wasn’t so bad to relax and also have some time to myself to walk around and explore.
The hot pot was delicious! It was also incredibly spicy. A traditional and fun eating-style in Sichuan. After hotpot, we went around the city-center more and finally tucked-in for the night.

Thursday April 4
Finally – the day we went to the Panda Reserve!!
I mean, there’s not much else to it… we went and saw the pandas!

Friday April 5
We left Chengdu early in the morning, got lunch in Guangzhou, and then headed back to school… Since then Peter and I have been very busy with mid-terms. I especially have had 4 presentations this week that have really been taking up my time.

This week, I have been spending lots of time with friends when I get the chance: Captain Lin (my captain from Rugby), Beryl, Rain, Avril, and Alexey. I recently hit a new squat personal record of 92kg (202 lbs)! And a new deadlift personal record of 87kg (191 lbs)! The Hong Kong Rugby Sevens tournament happened over this last weekend. I’m bummed I couldn’t go this year, even though I’m so close, but hopefully I can go next year or the year after. I really have found rugby to be my favorite thing right now. I love watching it and playing it! Peter also bought my flowers last week 🙂 And my friend Beryl surprised me with a bouquet of flowers the other day, for no particular reason (I also got her a bouquet of flowers) ~ now I have flowers drying in my closet.

I’m relieved to be down with most of my major mid-term assignments, though I still have a couple individual projects to work on now. I’m glad that rugby practice is starting up again, I get to practice Tuesday-Sunday! I just hope I can stop getting bit so much by mosquitos (I wear an anti-mosquito cream and apply anti-itch every day)… it makes my body itchy and really sore/achey because they swell and stiffen. Not fun. Looking forward to the next weeks! Sorry for this late and LONG post.

再见,
Abigail & Peter

Quick Update

Local time: Sun March 31, 23:18

Peter, Avril, Laxmi, and I will head to Chengdu tomorrow! Avril went home this weekend and will meet Peter, Laxmi, and me in Guangzhou for dinner tomorrow before we take a plane at 8pm (ish) to Chengdu. Peter, Laxmi, and I will take a taxi to the Tangjiawan train station that’s very close to school around 3pm and take an hour long train ride to Guangzhou. We are very excited for this trip! Avril has done a lot of itinerary planning as well, she seems very excited to show us around. I am not entirely sure of the details but I will make sure to take lots of pictures and give an extensive update either through the week or at the end of it!

Happy reading week to us, and Happy Easter as well!

Love and miss everyone.

Almost Reading Week (Spring Break)

Local time: Mon March 25, 21:21

Next week is “reading week” which is basically just a spring break. Professors and students all encourage you to use this time to travel around China! Currently, our plan is to go to Chengdu with our closest friend, Avril. While we are in that area, we might also try to make our way towards Chongqing.

This week is pretty busy for both Peter and I. I have 4 classes of group projects to work on and have prepared by the end of reading week. Peter also has some projects and some quizzes to work on. However, I think we’re both managing our work pretty well.

We are still consistently going to the gym and enjoying rugby practice. Now that we understand everything more, it is even more fun!! The teammates are still super supportive and encouraging of us which makes all the difference. The team is also preparing for the national competition (we will not be a part of that of course, and probably won’t attend as it would cost money and we would have to skip classes) so practices are getting more intense and serious (still enjoyable though, and they still welcome and encourage us to come).

I have been hanging out a lot with a new rugby friend named Beryl. She is probably the shyest girl on the team but we’ve gotten really close and will often go out or go to the library together.

On Wednesday, Peter took me on a date where we walked through the beautiful Beijing Normal University campus… felt more like we were in a park and a cute neighborhood than a campus! We had dinner at one of their canteens and walked by a beautiful (man-made) pond.

Saturday Peter and I tried a new drink: a mango and durian milk tea… it was not a favorite.

Sunday was Beryl’s 21st birthday, so we ate cake with her and Captain Lin (he’s also a close friend of Peter, Beryl and me).

I think that recently things have been going pretty well and we are both excited for reading week to come! Also, the weather has been pretty warm lately, mid 70s to mid 80s and HUMID. My ankles are also stiff, sore, and swollen from being perpetually bitten by mosquitoes. They look horrible and feel horrible!! Not a fan of the mosquitoes.

Final note: there is a service on WeChat (the main app used in China for business, communication, entertainment, online shopping, etc) called WeRun where you can track your steps and there is a leaderboard with you and your friends – you can also like peoples’ rankings – and last week I got first place with roughly 20k steps a day five days in a row (my days show slightly less in WeRun because it can’t track any of my work outs or rugby practices)! My steps slowed down this weekend, but actually today I was number 1 again. A very fun and competitive but not too competitive way to motivate movement!

Already 1 Month at UIC

Local time: Mon March 18, 01:11

The rugby team is preparing to participate in a national tournament, often just being referred to as “Championships” so there are more practices to attend (as you are able) and practices are getting more and more specific. It is both difficult and very enjoyable! Peter and I have been getting closer with our rugby mates. There was a retreat this weekend on an island half an hour east of UIC. We had dinner, played games (poker, billiard, and Majiang), set off fireworks, and sang karaoke. It was a lot of fun~ and we stayed the night.

I hit a new PR (personal record) at the gym! I squatted 92kg, roughly 202lbs!! Yay, I finally broke the 200lb benchmark. It was one of the best feelings all week!

My classes are mostly just group projects, so I have been chugging along at those. There is nothing very interesting happening in my classes specifically. Peter’s classes are mostly listening to lecture and completing individual assignments. Everything is pretty normal.

Thursday, we went to dinner with Tony and Hao~ Hao is an intern who exchanged at UIC while he was in college a few years ago. He is from Vancouver, Canada and graduated from University of Michigan. Dinner was good, and we have established a fun little group! Our group chat is called, “The Great Canadian Get Together”, originally “The Great MN Get Together” until we added Hao.

Just getting through the next couple of weeks before our reading week!! (Basically spring break).

Little Update

Local time: Mon Mar 11, 12:16

There is not a lot to update, but classes are going smoothly and Peter and I have been establishing our friendships!

We hang out with Avril, Alecia, Yarik, and Alexey quite a bit. We went out together to celebrate International Women’s Day. Peter and I tried cicadas!! It just tasted like flavored paper really. I have also became closer friends with some rugby teammates: Kay, Betty, Vincent, and Captain Lin. Peter also has a new friend named Jim… Jim is a little mysterious haha.

Rugby is still my favorite activity, and I get to participate in the scrimmages now too 🙂

2 Weeks Done!

Local time: Mon March 4, 13:22

Not a lot of activities have happened in the last couple of weeks, but our classes are progressing and we have established a pretty solid weekly routine!

I am still very excited and passionate about rugby! I join the rugby class on Monday 4p-5p (it’s really 3p-5p but I’m in class until 4p) and Tuesdays 4p-6p. It’s a PE class offered at UIC that I am not taking for credit, just joining to practice and learn more about rugby. Peter can only go to the Tuesday class.

Tony (from Minnesota and the English for Academic Purposes teacher) took us to the Huafa mall to shop and get dinner! The Huafa mall is the largest mall in Zhuhai and actually very near where we were originally staying before classes started. It was a weird feeling of comfort and relief to be in an area we became so familiar with. Both Peter and I got some new clothes at the mall, then returned back to campus.

The phase II campus of UIC has many cats that inhabit the area. Since arriving, we have frequently seen a couple of them who we named Lucy, Bruce, and Whisky. We figured they were probably just stray cats and didn’t have names, but upon talking to the front desk lady of Abigail’s dorm, it turns out they all have names already!! That same front desk lady has given the cats little cat beds to sleep in, daily food, water, and attention. We make sure to pay the campus kitties a visit every time we see them. ~ the cat we named Whiskey (Frisky Whiskey because she likes attention but not pets and can get frisky) is actually named Chocolate. Lucy is actually named 芝芝 (zhīzhī, jer jer) and Bruce is actually named 雀猫 (quèmāo, sparrow cat). Also, we are pretty sure Lucy/Zhizhi is a boy… Lucifer?? There’s a new cat too, we call her Mary, and she looks like Lucy/Zhizhi but the two do NOT get along. There’s 3 other black cats too, but they’re timid and don’t get close to people.

Anyways, classes are going fine, school is going fine, food is the same… Peter attracts a lot of attention… sometimes good, sometimes bad…

It’s pretty boring with not a lot to do but everything is going overall positively!

We met a get, kind of. He came up to us – Peter and has overall given off really creepy vibes. He added me but was very pushy to get Peter’s WeChat. He also posts only about how he has so many foreigner friends, and told Peter he really wants to meet his friends (assuming they are also foreigners). When we asked a couple other people we’ve met so far, who are foreigners, they have had the same interactions and have all been pretty creeped out. He even admitted to how many foreign friends he’s collected… He recently sent a message to Peter inviting him to go to a party with him for International Women’s Day… the exact same text, word for word, was also sent to other foreigners studying here. Anyways, everyone has gotten a really creepy vibe from him. It’s hard to explain in this way, as yes it sort of sounds like he is just being friendly and inviting to foreigners but it’s not like that. I even showed my two Chinese roommates his profile and how he has been acting and they thought it was really creepy and that we should report him. I think we will soon.

Anyways, aside from that, we’ve been slowly making new friends and relationships and of course nothing is going perfectly smooth, but everything is good here!

Getting Comfy

Local time: Sun Feb 25, 21:04

So since our last update, things here at UIC have gone much smoother and we are getting comfortable with the school. Now that we have our SIM cards, wifi, bedding, and classes figured out we are less reliant on our roommates for guidance and (rough) communication.

Our add/drop period to fix our schedules will be this week, and both Peter and I have some changes to make but we are overall happy with classes here.

We have met a new group of friends who have diverse backgrounds, and have hung out with them for the past few days. I will just put here the people we have met so far and a brief little bit about them (click paragraph to open drop-down):

Hua: Peter’s roommate! He helped us move onto campus, buy our bedding, and get our SIM cards. His English isn’t the best so communicating with him is difficult.
Luke: Peter’s dorm-mate (our dorms are suites, so 2 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms for 4 people). He’s an exchange student studying at HKBU but originally from France. He’s very nice and learning Chinese.
Andy: Another Concordia student, he’s majoring in Chinese education, Peter’s last dorm-mate/Luke’s roommate.
Mia: My roommate! She is originally from GuangZhou, so very near here but now her family is Xi’An (where the Terracotta Warriors are). Her English is pretty much perfect and she’s been very helpful and friendly since she got here. She studied abroad in France last semester so she’s also learning French!
Eleanor: My dorm-mate. She’s nice, extroverted, and I don’t see her much because she’s often out with friends. She’s from ShenZhen, China.
Dales: My other dorm-mate. She’s an exchange student studying at HKBU and from Kazakhstan. She’s very sweet and likes to share about her culture. I also don’t really see her though because she’s exchanging here to UIC with about 9 other Kazakh friends that she spends the majority of her time with.
Vivian: Our first friend! She’s from Vietnam and an exchange student. Her English is also fluent and she’s super fun! We have had lunch a couple of times and we also helped her buy her things when she got here. She’s nice and very similar to Peter and I in interests and personality.
Winnie: Friend. I met Winnie in my Organizational Communication class. She was super nice and came right up to me after class when she heard me introduce myself as being from the US. She told me how she had just did a study exchange in Salem, Oregon at Willamette University this last semester! She thought it was very cool that I lived only an hour or so away from there. We had lunch together and we talk on WeChat, maybe we’ll get food again 🙂
Avril: Friend. Avril is in my Culture and Translation class. She is very extroverted, crazy and unpredictable, and fun. She was super eager to invite Peter and I to hang out with her and her friend group (the follow people I will name). Her English is perfect!! She’s from GuangZhou, China (I’m pretty sure). We’ve hung out with her quite a few times and we plan to have lunch with her every Wednesday or so.
Alesia: Friend. Alesia is from Ukraine, a first year student at UIC and so nice! She is studying Chinese and psychology. She went on the day trip with us (I will explain that below).
Yarik: Friendish. He’s from Russia, first year student and we’ve only really hung around him when we’re with Avril and Alesia. He’s very quiet.
Alexy/Losha: Friendish. He’s from Russia too, very tall with shoulder-length hair. He’s funny and outgoing. We’ve also really only hung around him with Avril and Alesia.
Joshua (Josh): He’s from Essex, England. He’s just exchanging this semester but goes to a university in Whales. He’s very nice and took Peter and I to the gym for the first time.
Rain: Rain isn’t really our “friend” but he recruited Peter (and I) to join the UIC Rugby team while we were working out in the gym. He goes up to Peter and says something along the lines of: “oh wow you’re really big and strong” and “you should join our rugby team, you’d be the team tower.” He was very friendly and excited to meet us. We DID go to our first rugby practice and will probably continue to go because we had fun and also rugby team members get to go to the gym for free. We also will probably go to the gym together.
Tony: Tony! Tony is from Minnesota! Somewhere about 2 hours from Duluth. He’s the EAP teacher (English for Academic Purposes, required course for UIC full-time students) and also an assistant coach on the Rugby team. He helped Peter and I learn to pass the rugby ball and was very friendly getting to know us. He is of Asian decent, Vietnamese I think, graduated from Hamline University, and did an exchange semester at UIC when he was a student too.


So Peter and I are joining the UIC Rugby team. They don’t really have a girls team because its 1. hard to find (Chinese) girls that want to play a sport and 2. hard to find (Chinese) girls that want to play a CONTACT sport. So the four girls that do want to play Rugby practice and play with the guys. Not sure if they get to play real games though. Anyways, Rain came up to us while we were working out and recruited Peter (and I) to join their rugby team! We went to our first practice on Saturday at 8 in the morning. We talked with Tony and mostly observed practice, learned about the game, and practiced short and long passes with each other. I enjoyed it quite a lot and hope to be more active in the practices going forward. I think Peter is excited about it too, at least excited for the free access to the gym that comes with joining the team! Hopefully making some friends as well. There was going to be another practice today at 5pm but we couldn’t go because we were on the Zhuhai day-trip planned by IDO (the International Development Office, they coordinate everything with exchange and international students at UIC).

Today we went on a day-trip around Zhuhai with some other exchange and international students. It started off this morning at phase II campus at 10:30am (we were late though) and we went to BeiShan village. We had a tour guide who was very excited about taking us to his home village. We hung around BeiShan village for a while, ate lunch and walked through some old temples. It was pretty neat! Then we went to New YuanMing palace. It was very beautiful, but almost immediately our first impression was that it was recently built as an attraction. None of the temples felt very real, there was a lot of staged areas for pictures, even the trees in the temple were fake… it was easy to tell that railings and wood were just spray-painted, and so much was plastic or cheap wood. But, it was big and pretty. Then we went to the Zhuhai museum back in Jiuzhou (the museum we couldn’t find earlier before classes started). It was probably the most boring and cold museum Peter and I have ever been to. Not a single artifact. Everything inside was big and open with white walls. All there were were images and videos. Some cheap plastic models without any detail, or attention to building accuracy (we found a model with the area we stayed in before school and aside from one main building the rest of the buildings were just random). We just found a spot to sit and wait. We had a dinner tonight with the exchange and international students at restaurant in the HuiTong village between campus phase I and phase II. It was very yummy food! I thought the dinner would include more students, but it was only for people who went on the day trip I guess. I was also asked to give a speech at this dinner so going into it I thought I was going to be on a stage in a big banquet hall with all of the exchange and international students. But it was just one small room with 2 big round tables and maybe 15 students? So much less stressful and less formal. My speech went great though! And Joshua even asked after dinner, “are all American’s good public speakers?” What a compliment!! Anyways, dinner definitely turned the day around, though I wish we had also been able to go to rugby practice 😦

Abigail did a fantastic job both with her speech and also conversing with this one specific professor who was very interested in her adoption story! I could not be more proud of how well she presented her speech and story!!!

Peter

Maybe we didn’t enjoy most of the day as much as we thought we would, but it was good to get out and off campus, explore the city and meet some other students, and learn some history and culture about Zhuhai!

Yesterday was the Lantern Festival, the last day of the Chinese new year! To celebrate IDO hosted a small lantern festival celebration where we watched a lion dance, did some “lantern trivia”, made TangYuan (tāngyuán 汤圆) sweet rice balls with black sesame or peanut in them, ate TangYuan, and painted lanterns! We had more TangYuan today at dinner, and our dorm lobbies even served free TangYuan to us! So yummy 🙂

(sometimes my captions are too long, there is a little “i” at the bottom right of the pictures after you make them full screen that will show the whole caption)

Our First Impressions of UIC

Local time: Tue Feb 20, 22:10

Oh boy! Our first few days here have been quite the rollercoaster! This will probably be a long post because there has been a lot that’s happened.

We arrived to UIC on Saturday after about an hour bus ride on the city bus which got us within a few kilometers of campus. We traveled around 15km up to school on the bus costing a whopping 2 RMB for the two of us. Wow! After the bus, we took a short DiDi ride to the main part of campus.

Upon our arrival, we learned that campus is split into two parts, phase I and phase II. This might not sound like anything out of the ordinary, but they are actually separated by a little over 1km, or a 15 minute walk. Phase I campus is where all of the academic buildings, supermarkets, restaurant clusters (main one called Happy Eatery), and the old (still in. use) dormitories area. Phase II is a circle of 6 big dormitories where some are still being finished. This is also where they put all of the exchange (from the sister school HKBU, Hong Kong Basic Uni.) and international students. We, of course, arrived to the wrong part of campus and had to walk to the other part with all of our luggage in hand. Most of the walk is on a narrow quiet road which follows a creek and borders an ancient Chinese village called the Huitong Village. Overall, even though we arrived to the wrong spot, it wasn’t all bad being able to take in the scenery of the surrounding community of UIC.

We finally arrived to the correct part of campus (phase II) and were ready to move in! We were excited to be able to get settled in and meet our new home for the next few months. Unfortunately, we did not have anybody to greet us for a few hours which was a little frustrating, but eventually Peter’s roommate arrived to campus after running some errands.

Peter’s roommate is named Hua and is a full time student here. He took on the responsibility of bringing us to our new dorms and showing us a quick (like <10 minute) tour of the phase I campus, which we learned had free shuttle busses to and from every half hour. He also helped get us our necessary things for living on campus, as mattresses, SIM cards, wifi, and other basic necessities are not provided by the school. The dorms on phase II campus are very nice! Each dorm room hosts 4 students ~ there is a small common room with 2 connected bedrooms, 2 connected bathrooms, and 2 sinks (in the common room) in a mirrored fashion. Not only do we have this private common space for the 4 roommates, the rooms themselves are also quite spacious and have ACs. Very necessary, it’s been high 70s and low 80s and quite humid. Despite how easy this process above sounds, it was actually quite a hassle. There was not really any planning or clear communication, lots of last minute “oh we need this, didn’t know that…” “we should have gone to the store you didn’t tell us about to get this before it was closed…” sort of situations. Hua’s English also isn’t a very high level, so there was quite a language barrier. Even though he knew I could speak Chinese (we texted in Chinese before) he never really tried to use Chinese with me for help clarifying situations. Anyways, we finally have everything we need and now we are just taking our first classes and getting comfortable in our new living situations. Peter’s other roommates (they are in the other bedroom) are Andy who is also from Concordia and Luke who is an exchange student from HKBU and originally from France. Luke is very nice! We also learned that he’s a social media influencer with 90k followers and quite the traveller!! Peter also figured out the Wi-Fi for his dorm room, as it’s not automatically provided by the school- you have to pay the school for a year-long “subscription” basically and also buy your own router for the room. We are learning very quickly that UIC provides little and expects students to buy most things for themselves which is quite different from what we are used to at home.

My actually bedroom mate is named Mia. She is from Xi’An, China (where the Terracotta Warriors are). She arrived midday on Monday and has been super helpful with any concerns I have. She is pretty much fluent in English as well so communicating with her is very clear. I told her I wanted to practice my Chinese too and she was happy to help and use Chinese with me too 🙂 My other roommates are Eleanor and Dales. Eleanor is from Shen Zhen, so pretty near here, and Dales is from Kazakstan. They are also super nice! Eleanor studied last semester as an exchange student at HKBU where Dales is a full-time student so they knew each other from last semester. Anyways, Peter and I are both moved in and at this point it’s just about getting accustomed to the culture and campus life. (Actually harder than we thought but we still have lots to learn and lots of time).

Peter has had three different classes so far. The first one which was unfortunately an 8:00 A.M class on Monday which was the first day of classes was software engineering. It sounds like a complicated class, but he says that so far with the two class periods he has had that it is extremely basic so far. To his surprise, the instructor also mentioned that she isn’t going to tell anyone in the class what coding language is going to be used because her philosophy is that if you start a project earlier, it will take longer and even provided an example saying, “many students have emailed me asking about what language we will be coding in for the final project. Many students say oh, I want to start this project early so I’m not so busy later in the semester when I am much busier, but I will not tell you what language. It will take longer if you start earlier.” This seemed a little ridiculous as generally starting a project early is to your advantage, but Peter has decided to just go with the flow despite how he feels about it. His second class was another computer science class which he was very confused about as it was about 90% Chinese. Yikes! He had his third class today which was another computer science relating class, but he says he might swap that one out for a different class as it seems to be a class meant for a first year student and might be a little too easy. Overall, Peter is excited to dig into computer science this semester despite the troubles that he’s had thus far.

Most of my classes have just been going over a syllabus and then going straight into lecture. I have had an Organizational Behavior class which was syllabus and lecture. It was fine, a little boring and repetitive to my business ethics class so far. I also had my Advanced Chinese class! There’s only 3 people in it (including me) and it’s a class focused specifically on speaking. It is pretty fun, we did a lot of talking and practicing/fixing grammar. My other classmates are nice! One of them is actually Luke. The only thing about that class is that the vocab we are “learning” and the topics are really basic ~ sports, transportation, shopping. Even Luke asked me after class, “don’t you think this class is too easy for you?” In a 50 minute class he could already tell it didn’t seem advanced enough for me. But since it’s a class focused on speaking I will find a lot of value in working on my grammar. I was recommended to find a professor I like and maybe talk to them about tutoring with them or someone they recommend about business/communication related Chinese topics and vocabulary. So after this week I will do that (I want to meet all of my professors first). My favorite class so far is my Organizational Communication class. Everyone in the class already knew each other and the professor from last semester’s pre-rec to this class. The professor was like “is there an exchange student here who doesn’t understand Mandarin? I thought there was one” and I raised my hand but explained how I do know Mandarin. So she asked if it was okay that she could use Mandarin to clarify some difficult topics in the class and I said yes! The rest of class was taught bilingually (slides and everything are in English still which helps). Most of that class is based around a group assignment and when we were choosing groups a nice group of girls asked if I would join them! I also met another girl who was just in Salem, Oregon and she invited me to eat lunch with her!! My last class was a strategic management but it might get cancelled because there are only 8 people enrolled and only 3 people (including myself) showed up. It’s a little different than the Chinese class rules. I feel bad because it’s taught by an assistant professor who just graduated with his PhD and it’s his first year teaching! Anyways, overall I’ve had a pretty good impression of my classes. All but one of my professors (the one I just mentioned) are young women which I think is cool.

Peter and I also have a friend named, Vivian. She is a HKBU exchange student and originally from Vietnam. Her English is pretty much perfect but we do like to throw some Chinese words at each other when we talk. She is very similar to us and we’ve hung out a few times now! I met her from the semester inbound international/exchange student WeChat group chat where she asked for some help getting to school from Hong Kong. I reached out to her with advice from our experience and she was super grateful and we got along really well. Looking forward to hanging out with her and getting to know her more!

So, yeah we’re settling in. It hasn’t been smooth or easy by any means… actually pretty stressful and frustrating. UIC hasn’t been entirely clear or hospitable in helping us adjust and get to know campus. I think UIC expected our roommates to guide us through everything, but from Vivian’s, Peter’s and my experiences our roommates didn’t really know what their expectations were which really didn’t help with the moving-in process ~ things really only got done if we explicitly asked about it. But like I have said, we are being optimistic and looking forward to the rest of the semester. There is actually a dinner on Sunday for the international and exchange students and I was asked to give a speech on behalf of the international students (I accepted!). I am actually excited for that!

Anyways, I think that covers mostly everything for now! Look out for another post maybe this weekend?

Love,
Abigail & Peter

P.S. I will get more campus/class photos for the next blog post!

Last Day in Zhuhai City Central!

Local time: Fri Feb 16, 20:09

Today was our last full day in Zhuhai City Central/port area. We will leave and move into our campus dorms tomorrow!

To spend our last day, we of course went back to our favorite noodle and dumpling shop, Lan Zhou Noodles. We then took a public bus north to Jiu Zhou Cheng/Hai Bin. I thought the wall temple would be cool to walk through and the map also showed a neat museum but when we got there it looked pretty closed. However, down and across the road a little bit was Hai Bin public park and it was BUSY (and beautiful)! Today is the sixth day of Chinese new year (正月初六), the day where business that were closed for the holiday traditionally re-open, so there were lots of decorations still up in the park! The weather was lovely, not too hot, so walking around in the sun with the occasional breeze felt really nice. We passed by little food stands but decided to pass ~ most of it was fish balls and tentacles. This park was huge, green, and open. There were flower beds around that looked healthy and lush, more picture opportunity spots, and a pond that you could ride pedal (paddle?) boats on and shoot water guns. The park was also by the beach which was PACKED with people, though not a single person was in the water, granted there were signs that said not to go in the water. Down the beach a ways was the Fisherman’s Daughter statue, a famous Zhuhai landmark. We walked down the boardwalk to get our picture of it, and had to squish between people. Peter had to take the picture for me because I couldn’t really see.

People like umbrellas here and unfortunately I am the perfect height to be poked in the eyes by them.

Peter

(The umbrellas are to block the sun. Lots of the women here wear garments and accessories that cover the majority of their skin. I have heard before that having fair skin is part of the beauty standard, so maybe that has something to do with it?)

We then walked up the mountain a little bit to really enjoy the view away from the noise and crowd before hopping on a bus back to Gongbei for another 冰糖葫芦 (bīngtánghúlù). The bingtanghulu shop keepers gave big smiles and waves as we walked up ~ clearly we are frequent visitors. We intend on stopping by there one last time tomorrow!

And yesterday A and Lan opened their boutique back up. As we were walking back to our hotel and passed we stopped in to say hi. Lan wasn’t there at the time but A was and she was getting an offering ready for prayer (a small table with duck, oranges, apples, and tea). We didn’t want to interrupt her so we only stopped for a little bit. In that time she went to her purse and handed both Peter and I red envelopes! So nice of her! We will go back tomorrow as well to say goodbye. So, we have a couple of stops to make before we hop on a bus from Gongbei port plaza up north to school. Though we have truly enjoyed our time down here and have enjoyed learning to navigate the public transportation, it will be nice to finally be on campus, meet our roommates, and start our classes! (It has been a LONG break).

The hospitality we have received during our time in central Zhuhai has been truly astounding. Everybody has been so friendly and helpful making our time here very enjoyable.

Peter

It really has been such an amazing experience living independently here, and the people around us have made being here not so scary and isolating. We are going to miss this little area of Zhuhai we’ve come to know so well but really what awaits us ahead is the big adventure!!

Thank you again to everyone who has been supporting and loving us!

We love and miss you ❤